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Why Do They Fight for the Bill?
Who's paying?
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In Chinese culture, "fighting for the bill" is about showing generosity, building relationships, and gaining miànzi (face). The person who invites others often pays, but everyone tries to contribute as a gesture of respect.
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Elders usually pay, as it shows care for others. In business, the host pays to show respect and foster connections.
The "fight" is mostly polite, and taking turns paying keeps relationships balanced. Winning the bill fight reflects generosity and earns social respect, while losing gracefully shows humility.